Why do some people seem to be always happy? What's their secret?

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Re: Why are some people always happy? What's their secret?

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If you ask some happy people of their childhood, it may be bad childhood. Like, really bad.
Then again, some people go all the way (cognitive dissonance/fallacy of incomplete evidence).

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Lord Buddha has preached "Happiness" is the great wealth.. When a person stays with full comprehension on Eight Worldly Conditions (Astha Loka Dharma), he can stay happy and relax
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Re: Why do some people seem to be always happy? What's their secret?

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I got a theory. Since:

1. American culture expects you to always be positive and upbeat, and it is a taboo to say "I feel terrible" when people ask "How are you doing?".
2. In reality, life is filled with up and down cycles that take turns, just like the four seasons take turns, so no one can always be happy, since the opposite has to take its turn too, according to the law of nature. Even when you get what you want, the novelty eventually wears off and your mind adjusts to it so it's no big deal anymore, and unhappiness has to come and take its turn.

Therefore, the reason Americans act so FAKE is because the above two cannot be reconciled, so they gotta put on a fake mask to reconcile them. That's why fakeness is part of American culture and people. Make sense? What do you all think?
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