Excuse me, but Ladislav is just speaking for himself. He has gotten laid hundreds of times in other countries, like Philippines, Thailand, and even had a wife once. He doesn't need to keep on getting laid to impress guys like you. He's in Cambodia now to work, not to try to score, and his employer is making him work long hours. So give the cultural master a break please.HappyGuy wrote: ↑December 2nd, 2019, 8:15 amI know you haven't. That's not the shock of the year is it now, why would someone who has to travel all the way to Asia to escape their beta-ness get laid? Furthermore I saw your other thread about getting old and a declining sex drive. Mostly weak betas go to East Asia, some get laid with girls who like western guys some don't, some aren't interested in sex to begin with but that doesn't change what they are. And the lonely guys who fly to Asia to shave their heads, renounce women and become Buddhist monks are losers and have less knowledge and wisdom than a western slut.
However, FYI, our forum member WorldTraveler got laid a lot in Cambodia. Sometimes with bar girls, sometimes with disco girls, and sometimes with regular girls. However, he was very pro-active and cold approaching a lot, and playing the numbers game, tirelessly. So it's definitely possible if you want to. I saw him do it in person.
Also in Cambodia in the capitol city of Phnom Penh I saw many white foreign guys with Cambodian girls or women. You don't have to marry them because the laws against foreigners marrying local women are strict, but that doesn't mean you can't be a couple. There are gay couples too. Some expats told me about their "boyfriend" there, which was gross to me, but I tried to keep a straight face.
So yes the girls are attainable, but I wouldn't say are easy to pick up. Unless of course they are freelance prostitutes, which you can find there too.
Also the bars there in the red light area of Phnom Penh were pretty fun and classy. Even Rock had a good time there and enjoyed them more than the bars in Angeles City. They have classier girls and the place is more modern and clean and has class, not a ghetto or dump. The bar girls also have a good attitude and are playful, pleasing and act classier too. Very refreshing.
These are my impressions after spending two months there. When you are new of course, everything looks refreshing at first. Long term is another matter.
Also, why are you so judgmental? America considers a lot of people to be "losers". It doesn't take much to be considered a "loser" in America. America likes to use that term loosely because it's toxic and people like to raise their ego up by putting others down. Thus it's a toxic bullying culture. We all know that here and have exposed it. Why are you defending something bad and evil?
It's not like America gives you a choice about whether you want to be a loser or not. It doesn't give you a control panel that says "Push button A to be a loser. Push button B if you don't want to be a loser." It simply brands you a loser for any little reason, and gives you no choice about it. That's why we all consider it toxic and unfriendly and antisocial. Why aren't you blaming America? Why are you blaming victims such as expats that go to Asia?
Basically if you don't act FAKE and COCKY a lot and pretend to be hot shit, then you're a loser, at least in California and high school culture. Is that your standard too? If so then the problem is you, because sane people don't fit into insane cultures, as Erich Fromm said:
"The sick individual finds himself at home with all other similarly sick individuals. The whole culture is geared to this kind of pathology. The result is that the average individual does not experience the separateness and isolation the fully schizophrenic person feels. He feels at ease among those who suffer from the same deformation; in fact, it is the fully sane person who feels isolated in the insane society - and he may suffer so much from the incapacity to communicate that it is he who may become psychotic."
- Erich Fromm, The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness (1973)